Be The Woman He Can't Imagine Life Without!
The secret to connecting to a man’s heart!
Do you ever wonder what it would feel like to be with a man who completely adores you? Who you know in your gut would stay with you even through the most difficult times?
A relationship where you felt so secure, valued, appreciated and understood? Where just being with your man brought you this incredible sense of peace and warmth that seemed to melt away any stress, worries, or tension that we feel in our everyday lives?
How incredible would it feel to wake up knowing no matter what life may throw your way, you can rest in the knowledge that your man thinks you’re the most incredible thing to come into his life, and that YOU are the only one for him.
You CAN absolutely have this kind of love!! Believe me, if it happened for me, it can certainly happen for you!
I was just about the most guarded, emotionally closed off woman you could find. I was so terrified of letting my guard down, letting someone see me vulnerable only to get hurt in the end, that I constantly hid behind this facade.
I spent so much time and effort trying to be the type of woman that I believed men wanted, trying to get men to fall for me and see how great of a woman I was.
Yet, in the end, I would always end up heartbroken.
The epiphany that helped me find true love.
This is because while a man might have liked me, enjoyed spending time with me, even been attracted to me, I didn’t connect to his HEART. I didn’t foster an emotional attraction in him on a deep level.
While I may not have been consciously doing this, I was keeping men at arm’s length emotionally, not allowing myself to feel the full depth of my emotions out of fear that I’d get hurt. I was so guarded!
I thought by keeping my walls up around my heart, I was keeping myself safe from being hurt so badly. But in actuality, while I might have been keeping myself from being hurt, I was also keeping myself from LOVE! I might have kept the pain away, but I also kept myself from experiencing the joy and happiness that love can bring.
So how do you connect to his heart?
Connect to his heart by connecting to yours!
The first step to connecting to your heart is to get out of your head and out of your thoughts, and connect to your feelings in your body.
The Open Heart exercise.
Feel where your feelings may be physically presenting themselves, like that tension in your shoulders, that clamping on your heart, that heaviness in your tummy.
Sink into those sensations and really FEEL how that feels in your body.
Breathe.
Visualize yourself unzipping your heart. Take your hand, and unzip the imaginary zipper that over your heart.
Visualize your heart finally being able to breathe, finally being open to the world.
Let your heart beat inside your body, but keep it unzipped and open to the world.
Breathe.
See how long you can tolerate being in your body, really feeling these feelings, and keeping your heart open.
Keep sinking deeper into those feelings. Let them overcome you. Let them overwhelm you. Stop fighting them. Stop resisting them.
Just relax, breathe, and let yourself feel. Let your heart be open.
How does that feel?
Try not to be afraid of these feelings. They are just feelings! They won’t hurt you. Feelings are temporary! They change. They morph. Most of the time the pain that we feel is from the RESISTANCE to the feelings. From trying so hard to not feel these feelings.
The truth is, these feelings are there whether you like it or not. And the ONLY way out of a feeling is through it, to FEEL it.
When we are guarded we are disconnected…
The moment we get into our heads, start overanalyzing, overthinking, spiraling our thoughts about what’s going on in the relationship, a man begins to feel disconnected.
That’s because you are no longer connected to your heart when you get into your head!
If you’re not connected to your heart, a man cannot connect to his own heart, and therefore, can’t connect with yours. This is the mysterious power of the feminine! The primordial connection to our emotions, to our hearts!
When you finally are able to open your heart, you come into the full force of your feminine power! You’re able to receive that love that men want to give you, instead of blocking yourself off from it.
Men want women who are connected to their FEELINGS and can handle all of their intense, icky feelings, because that means we can handle theirs.
Otherwise a man cannot feel SAFE to be himself with you!
What makes a man feel like you are the only woman for him.
Feeling safe to be himself with you is what sets you apart from every other woman out there. When a man feels truly safe with you it fosters a deep, emotional attraction for you that makes him just want to BE with you.
When you are not connected to your heart, your feelings, your feminine energy, a masculine man has a harder time truly connecting to HIS heart and his feelings.
A man cannot feel safe on a subconsious level if a woman is not authentically connected to and accepts her deepest, ugliest feelings. A man longs to feel loved and accepted for exactly who he is, ugly warts and all, and he wants to feel safe to show you these parts. But you MUST allow yourself to be vulnerable in his presence and accept your ugly, warty parts first.
Take the first steps to being the woman he cannot live without!
You can learn exactly what to do to help a man develop a deep emotional attraction for you where he cannot see himself living a life without you!
You CAN turn your relationship around and have everything you could ever want in a relationship - love, intimacy, connection, understanding, passion - with just a few, but powerful changes!
Learn to let your guard down and to tolerate being vulnerable with a man so that your heart is ALWAYS open to love. Let him see you for exactly who you are: a brave, beautiful, emotional, feminine, authentic, mysterious woman who he feels compelled to get to know and be with.
You deserve to have everything you’ve ever wanted in life. You deserve your happily-ever-after with a man who loves, understands, and appreciates you for who you are. And, I want to help you find that!
I know how it feels to feel like you’re never going to find the right man, or that your man will never step up and be the man you want him to be. It’s a terrible feeling.
But you don’t have to feel that way!
Enter your email address in the button near the top of my home page on my website, www.rylearosecoaching.com and you will receive a FREE intro course of my 8 Secrets To Awaken Your Feminine Power program. In this course you will find methods and tools that you can start using immediately.
OR email me at CoachRylea13@gmail.com telling me about your situation and what you are wanting for your happily-ever-after and I will get back to you with a REAL answer! You can also let me know if you’d like to be considered for a free Awaken True Love session! I look forward to meeting you and solving your love situation quickly.
Love always,
Rylea